San Diego veterans join chorus demanding a repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell
Opponents of the military’s ban on openly gay and lesbian service members increased calls this week to repeal the 16-year-old law referred to as “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.”

In this Jan. 23, 2007, file photo, U.S. Navy dog handler MA3 Joseph Rocha, 20, of San Diego, Calif. is pictured. Rocha since has left the military and spoken out as a victim of hazing in a case fueling calls to eliminate the Navy's "don't ask, don't tell" policy toward gays in the military. On Wednesday Oct, 21, 2009, the Navy announced the former leader of the unit, Chief Petty Officer Michael Toussaint, would be forced to retire. (AP Photo/Hasan Jamali, File)
During a Thomas Jefferson School of Law panel Tuesday — on the eve of Veterans Day — 23-year-old Navy veteran Joseph Rocha called the military’s policy an “open invitation” to abuse service members, regardless of gender and sexual orientation.
Rocha, a student at the University of San Diego, suffered more than two years of taunts, hazing and abuse in the U.S. Navy, before admitting to his commander he was gay.
Rocha was honorably discharged, and a subsequent investigation found more than 93 counts of abuse against Rocha and several sailors, and 27 violations of military code of conduct by Chief Petty Officer Michael Toussaint.
“The abuse never would have continued or reached the levels that it did, had I simply been able to go to (the) Equal Opportunity (office) and say, ‘I am a gay man being abused specifically because of my homosexuality,’” he said.
Rocha says during his time with a bomb-sniffing K9 unit in Bahrain, he was tied to a chair and left in dog kennels, hosed down in full uniform and forced to simulate oral sex on another sailor.
Rocha said the unit’s second-in-command — Petty Officer 1st Class Jennifer Valdivia — was a victim too, but when Toussaint was promoted, Valdivia was put in charge of the unit and faced disciplinary action for failing to stop the abuse. She committed suicide on Jan. 12, 2007.
Rocha said he and others will send a letter this week to Secretary of Defense Robert Gates, asking for a court martial of Toussaint, and a full report on Valdivia’s suicide. Rocha said he and others will also ask how many high-ranking officers had knowledge of the abuse, and how the Don’t Ask Don’t Tell policy facilitated it.
Rocha joins a chorus of advocacy organizations, veterans and elected officials, who are urging for the repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.
The Palm Center, a pro-gay rights think tank at the University of California Santa Barbara, released a report Monday that claims unit cohesion is not impacted by openly gay or lesbian service members.
Supporters of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell have long said allowing gay military personnel to serve openly would affect troop morale and military readiness. Rocha called that the “loudest claim.”
“This is the strongest evidence yet that homosexuality has no effect on military service,” said Dr. Nathaniel Frank, author of “Unfriendly Fire: How the Gay Ban Undermines the Military and Weakens America” and a senior research fellow at the Palm Center, which commissioned the study.
The study — authored by Bonnie Moradi of the University of Florida and Laura Miller of the nonprofit Rand Corporation — analyzed war veterans’ ratings of unit cohesion and readiness, and found that knowing a gay or lesbian unit member was not statistically correlated with either cohesion or readiness.
According to the study, “the data indicated no associations between knowing a lesbian or gay unit member and ratings of perceived unit cohesion or readiness. Instead, findings pointed to the importance of leadership and instrumental quality in shaping perceptions of unit cohesion and readiness.”
But, the study also reported 40 percent of returning war troops support the current military policy, 28 percent are opposed to it and 32 percent are neutral.
In terms of strategy, opponents of the policy are considering different paths toward the repeal.
According to the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN), the Military Readiness Enhancement Act (HR-1283) would repeal Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, and replace it with a policy prohibiting discrimination in the armed forces on the basis of sexual orientation. The bill has 183 cosponsors, and needs 215 to pass Congress.
Opponents of the military’s policy have also considered attaching a repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell to a military spending bill, which may garner the support of some Republican representatives. The maneuver isn’t unusual. Last month, the president signed federal hate crimes legislation that was attached to a military spending bill.
Gay Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass.) told the Washington Blade this week the repeal would likely be a part of a Defense Department spending bill Congress will consider early next year.
Frank and a spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign said the repeal “belongs” with the authorization bill, and that is “where it should be.”
Rocha said Tuesday the fight to repeal Don’t Ask Don’t Tell “probably cannot be won on a gay rights issue alone.”
“There are just too many people who fundamentally won’t care,” he said. ” … If you can’t get people to care on a civil rights issue, then there’s a good chance you can get a large demographic of people to care on the economic issue. They are personally impacted by the economic crisis, and when you tell them it costs $363 million to implement or keep the policy, they’re not going to be in favor of that. … You have another demographic touched by national security issues due to their own service or their families, and you tell them you lose 14,000 service members under this policy, and that’s where you get them.”
Locals — Rocha included — are hopeful they will see an end to Don’t Ask Don’t Tell soon.
Ben Gomez, a Navy veteran and president of the local chapter of American Veterans for Equal Rights (AVER) marched in Washington D.C. last month with thousands of gay rights activists, in part, to prompt the president to reiterate his support of the gay community, and his pledge to repeal Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.
“Where we are in terms of our cosponsors, the dialogue in D.C., and this new administration, I am more positive, and hopeful than ever a repeal is imminent,” Gomez said.
Joseph Peña is SDNN’s Lifestyle editor. E-mail: joseph.pena(at)sdnn.com.
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Comment by: Ross Porter Posted: November 11, 2009, 2:20 pm
It’s time to end this discriminatory policy against LGBT people who are serving and who want to serve. As a gay man whose husband served in the Vietnam era Air Force and met many other LGBTs serving in uniform, we are proud Americans with strong capability for effective service to the country. The social experiment of discrimination is a failure.
Comment by: Cuauhtémoc Q Kish Posted: November 11, 2009, 5:38 pm
I am OPPOSED to any ATTACHMENT to ANOTHER bill to end “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” The bill should be passed on its own merits, of discrimination. It is time for CONGRESS to stand TALL while announcing that DADT is DISCRIMINATION, pure and simple. Additionally, we have lost far too much talent through the military witch hunts. Enough! It’s time for Obama and Congress to act, no more excuses! I get so tired of saying “second-class citizen.” We (gay individuals) aren’t and it’s an abomination to have been caged and taunted for so long.
Comment by: furbrain Posted: November 12, 2009, 8:19 am
I am a 26 year Navy veteran who served with many gay men and women while in service to our Country. I totally agree with Mr. Kish that repeal of this ill conceived law needs to be accomplished on its own to ensure that bias and discrimination be recognized for what it is. The recently passed Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Bill is an excellent example of that. God bless our service people, our veterans and our Country.
Comment by: 101stAirbornVet Posted: November 12, 2009, 12:47 pm
@furbrain - you do know the Matthew Shepard bill was passed as an attachment to a defense spending bill right? It was not passed on its own.
Comment by: furbrain Posted: November 12, 2009, 10:02 pm
OK thanks.
Comment by: Tony Hartman Posted: January 21, 2010, 11:39 pm
As I sit and write these words I cannot help but to put this issue of Gays serving in the military into prospective. I served in the military for 20 years and every single place I was ever stationed including ships there were gay people. They were made fun of, harrassed, humiliated and terrorized on a daily basis. After all this they continued to work on a daily basis afraid to ask for help. Their superiors did nothing to stop it. And for all their dedication to duty they get kicked out not for engaging in sexual acts but just saying who they are. Their hetrosexual soldiers, sailors, airmen and marines not only get away with having sex on military installations but are afforded the all the benifits including medical, dental and shopping privledges for their conduct.When women get pregnant it is a sure sign that two people are having sex. Punish the act not the person if it is committed while on duty. Do not punish gay people just because their gay and afford straight people all the priviledges just because there straight. Peoples sexuality has no place while in the performance of their duties, period. That means gays, straight or what ever. The reason men and women are in the miltary is to fight for our freedoms. Last time I checked privacy is one of those freedoms and our bedrooms are a private place. There are so many important issues going on in the world right now. It is time to move on from this issue and concentrate on lessoning the human suffering going on all around us. If you are ready willing and able and you want to serve the USA that has nothing to do with your sexuality and it should not be discussed while you are in the performance of your duties. I could go on and on but Thank You for all you do to end this ban on gay people serving in the US military. The closet is not a happy place to live.